One of my favorite coaches, Michael Neill, sometimes advises people to flip a coin when they are having trouble making a difficult decision.
Why? Is he really leaving what could be a major life choice up to chance?
Not at all. Try it. See how you feel when the coin lands. What I find is that I end up rooting for head or tails, or I'm excited or disappointed when the coin lands.
When this happens, I know what I really want. Not what I think I should want. And then I can do that.
And you can too.
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